Why I don't ask Gorgeous Guy out

I think he's just not that into me.
I discussed this actually with some guys last night, who gave the following feedback: after seeing me four or five times, he knows if he's really interested in dating me. That night he probably just wanted me to stay around so he could get laid. The comment that I'm into scifi but he's not combined with his basically turning me down when I said we should go out last December (his response? "But you're a lawyer) - there will always be a reason why I'm not what he really wants.
I really think he just wanted to sleep with me that night. He could email me and ask me out any time. He knows I'm interested. He's a savvy guy and he's at least 35 if he's a day, so he knows what's what. I've put myself out there enough. All the more reason why it's good that I just left on Thursday instead of hanging around.

Gorgeous Guy again

I was out last night at the new Prime 112 Italian (never been before - I gorged myself on cheesy garlic bread and eggplant parmesan - yum!!).

Then my friend says that Gorgeous Guy is here, and she goes over to say hello - he peers around the bar area to see me and I wave, then go over. When I come over he lights up, I swear. He asked us how the dinner group was going and I said I was hosting again on June 29th. He said he's supposed to be in Rome. I said a I love Rome, it was my first European city and I love it! My friend leaves because she knows I'm a dork about thsi guy. He asks me what I've been up to, wanted to know if I was staying at Prime for a while, asked me if I had seen the new Star Trek movie. I said I hadn't but I really need to see it, and Wolverine and Terminator. He says, "So you're a sci fi person?" "Um, I guess, yeah." "I'm not," he said. Hmmm. I don't say stuff like that unless I'm interested in dating a person, but that's just me. So then I told him about this business advertising thing he might be interested in, said I had a card, and he wanted it, so I go to get it from my purse and he follows me over (he could have just waited). Then my friends were leaving and we were still talking, and he's like "Your friends are leaving," and I was going to go but we kept talking and then he's like "Your friends are leaving," so then I decided I should acually go. He said, "I have your email address to, so I can reach you about this," and I said goodbye.

Then I got in my car and screamed and shrieked.

(Okay, yes, I'm a huge sci fi movies and tv dork, and I read a lot of True Blood-type book series.)

Monday night

I finally attended my dinner group again on Monday. Had great fun, lots of inappropriate jokes and heart laughter. When I came in to the restaurant the gorgeous guy that wanted to date my friend was there. He said hello but went back to his convo. Sigh. He's so cute. I sat with some super fun people and we laughed our asses off. One guy said he has wild parties at his house in the Grove, and I was like, "Invite me!" and gave him my card. He's already friended me on facebook. He seems really nice and obviously has a good sense of humor.

Then the gorgeous guy walked over to my table just to say goodbye to me - what? I don't get it. Well, I do. He's not that in to me but he loves that I'm in to him. So he's feeding on it. Oy. He was also with this really, really good looking guy who's like 6'4", who has looked at me several times during several dinners. Inquiries have yet to determine who he is. I have contemplated asking gorgeous guy in an email, since it would stick it to him and answer my question.

I know, my life is so rough.