Yeah, I'm workin' the online dating scene. I'm talking with like 10 guys between eharmony and chemistry. We gotta get me married off eventually. I turned 30 on Saturday. I don't wish I was married or anything, but I haven't been in a relationship of any sort for 2 years. It can be lonely at times. And I feel myself becoming more and more of a homebody, because I don't want to go to random boozy events on south beach that 150 strangers are attending or do the bar/club thing. So that leaves small gatherings with friends, dinners, and/or movies in the evenings. Which is fine. But it's hard to meet new people that way. So I try to do other things, like my dinner group and my book clubs. It takes a long time to establish enough contact-time with someone to consider asking them to do something.
Oy.
Maybe I'll get a date this week. Or see "Paranormal Activity," because I *really* want to see that. Hee hee.
I'm also re-reading Surrendered Single, since a second read may help out. I am definitely more friendly with strangers than I used to be! And that's got the added bonus that strangers are friendlier back and everyone seems nicer!
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Just your last paragraph makes reading the book seem worth it!
As Dr. Phil says, "Get out of your comfort zone and try new activities that put you in a "target rich" environment." Golf lessons? Computer related class? ABA meetings? etc. (Nix on the bar scene. Good way to meet a heavy drinker!)
You are bound to find someone soon, Sam. Someone as confident, beautiful, and sassy as yourself is quite the catch. Don't settle! :)
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