I met 14 for lunch on Vday - he's the web guy from Alabama. He's very nice, but I am not attracted to him. As usual. But it doesn't help when he says things like, "I'm not good at math." I want someone that is legitimately good at a lot of stuff so I can trust them to take care of things when I can't. If calculating the tip is difficult for you, we're not gonna work. Sorry. I felt bad though because he said he was nervous. I was soooo not nervous. I think I'm getting desensitized to this whole thing. Although my friend assures me that eventually I'll go out with a guy where I'm nervous and not eating because of it.
I met 16 for lunch today - he's the Brazilian lawyer. See the first few sentences of paragraph above. Sheesh. This one didn't appear to be nervous, but he talks too much and he talks a little loud. The whole time I'm like, I hope people don't think we're together because this is a little embarassing. On the other hand, we had some very intellectual conversation about traveling in Europe, and about Shakespeare. He's a smart lawyer even though he didn't go to a law school I consider particularly good (no, I'm not saying which one). When I left I thought, at least he was smart! Even if he is a bit of a spit-talker. Double sigh.
I've decided that I need to be more selective about who I choose talk to on eharmony. I mean, I need to be more restrictive based on the photos - usually I just know that I'm not going to be attracted, and I should just go with that gut feeling. Otherwise I'm gonna get burned out, and then what will I write about on this blog?!!?
At the Freezing Lake Café...
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Well I'm glad I'm not out there dating (my husband really frowns on it!) I don't think I'd have much patience for the whole kissing alot of frogs thing. Hang in there, I'm sure your Prince is out there somwhere.
Although you may feel discouraged at times, remember there isn't just 1 way to live in this world and if you watch Revolutionary Road you will see the downside of "marital bliss"! :)
Did he go to FAMU or something? Maybe it was that law school on the highway in Jacksonville Beach?
Lol. I think he got it online! ;)
Actually, he's pretty smart, but not particularly socially adept. He's like, "I had to drive farther than you," although I picked a place in between us. What a complainer! Dumbass.
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